My husband and I got married last year, and we have had some difficulty with communication. When I am upset, I want to talk things out, and when he is upset, he wants to retreat and be by himself. I used to get so frustrated with him, and I was upset that we were breaking the rule about how we should never go to bed angry. I decided to read more about communication, so I went online and ordered a book that dealt directly with that topic. Once I learned how to approach him the right way, he started to open up, and things are much better now.